Let’s get connected with other individuals to avoid being stuck. It doesn’t matter if you are a writer, salesperson, mom, dad or just being you, join a group of individuals that are seeking similar goals and aspirations as yourself. You must know your purpose, your desires and acknowledge without a doubt who you truly are and what you would like to accomplish. Understand that these like-minded individuals are not being judgmental, but as yourself are seeking value and acceptance. They want to grow and work to create something much bigger than themselves, therefore they are not playing games and choose to be authentic in their critique of the work you share. They understand the need for accountability. No, on the contrary they are not seeking something extra to do, but rather are on an assignment to help you reach your fullest potential as you do the same for them. Whatever it takes, they are ready to celebrate you as you accomplish greatness. There is much room around the table to join with those as they welcome you and become your greatest cheerleader!
So as a Life Coach, I am available, what are you waiting for? Remember to surround yourself with people that can understand your vision and encourage you to never give up. I lead a Life Coaching group of men and women on Tuesday mornings from 10:30am-12:30pm. I seriously wanted to know if the sessions have been beneficial and posed the following questions: (requiring them as usual to write their responses)
- How can I help?
- What would you like to see us do differently?
- Why are you attending this Life Coaching Group?
- Do you think it is something you would like to share with others, why? Why not?
- What would you like to do differently in your life? What steps can you take to make that happen?
It was so astonishing in that as I read out the questions, several of the participants blurted out answers even before I finished, like, “nothing” or “if nothing is broken, why fix it?” It was understood that they favor our group. I was truly honored as each read their synopsis individually, nearly relating the same opinions that they believe the sessions to be worthwhile. One of the two men, shared, that because of our weekly discussions, prompt writings and sharing of other stories dealing with loss, it has ignited a strong desire in him to celebrate his wife’s legacy by writing her life story. Several voices shared how they look forward to coming to the group each Tuesday morning. One lady, a minister, shared that she uses the questions we discuss with her lady’s group at church and require them to share their perspectives through writing. I am so blessed to be a part of this Life Coach group and hope to continue to connect with others to foster a desire to move forward in reaching our goals. One of the ladies from the individual coaching session shared, “DrWanda, why you letting me go, you know I still need you, I’ll be coming back so we can talk some more”. I explained to her that she has done so well and didn’t need me any more. She has periodically joined the group sessions, but says, “I got to get out of the bed in the mornings.”
In addition, I am a member of “Telling Our Stories”, a writer’s group of mostly author’s that receive the same prompt and required to write about it within the 10- minute time period. Individuals share their perspectives and receive feedback from their peers. This is so powerful because we have learned how our backgrounds and life experiences influence our understanding of the text. Often time individuals may bring projects that they are working on and choose to share with the group for feedback, and critique. This is a welcoming experience to share with your peers and receive constructive criticism to give you another idea or perspective you may not have even considered. No man is an Island, no man stands alone, so let us choose to connect with others to help become the best we all can be. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12, paraphrasing: Two is better than one, because if one falls the other can help him up and a three stranded cord is not easily broken, as Jesus is at the center, and we are never really alone!
I welcome individuals to join Group Coaching Sessions in the Selma location or if you prefer individual sessions, you may contact me on the website wandaphd.com or at (919) 605-1257, leave a message and I will return your call. Don’t forget to subscribe to receive the Blog when they come out.
Blessings and peace,
DrWanda
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